Tuesday, March 14, 2006

Relief

She is fine. Just fine. Her measurements were normal. She weighs six and a half pounds. There is no answer as to why the external measurements have shrunk; one guess, from the NST nurse, is that she "must have twisted herself up all funny at the doctor's office just to scare you." Seems as good a theory as any.

I have cried with relief exactly twice in my life: first when the amnio results came back, and then again today. If she makes it out safely, I'm guessing there will be a third time.

I didn't realize till now how close simple relief comes to joy for me.

47 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

So glad to hear that everything looks good. I can't wait to read news of her arrival; one of my best friends, also in the Bay Area (and I'm from San Carlos originally), is expecting her baby soon as well. As such, I'm sending lots of positive vibes down that way.

Shaynee

8:42 PM  
Anonymous Jen-Again said...

Relieved for you and yours, so glad to hear that things are normal.

8:51 PM  
Blogger wavybrains said...

So so relieved for you. Another lurker who's been refreshing for you all day--so happy for you. Maybe this means she is getting ready to come??

9:15 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Absolutely fabulous news. It won't be long and you'll be posting baby pictures!

9:22 PM  
Blogger Cass said...

Excellent news! And I think the nurse may be on to something - maybe this is the first indication that she's going to be a spunky one, keeping you on your toes! (Probably a lot like so many of us were, actually!)

9:32 PM  
Blogger Dramalish said...

Oh oh oh good!
I've been worried with you, and am so glad that she and you and all is well.

I'm with you on the crying when she gets here happy and healthy. I can't wait for that day too.
:)

-D.

9:58 PM  
Blogger swissmiss said...

Good news.

1:06 AM  
Anonymous Emma said...

I'm so pleased to hear everything is going well. Looks like she's going to be fun if she's already worked out how to get you scared!

3:17 AM  
Blogger shelley said...

Wow! (and YAY!)

3:25 AM  
Anonymous pixi said...

Oh, thank God.

5:26 AM  
Anonymous Jenn said...

I'm so glad she is fine.

5:44 AM  
Blogger chris said...

Good lord.

Wow, that was the scariest thing. I can't imagine how you must have felt.

When she gets here, I think you should give her a stern talking to. Or just cry from relief. Little buggar. Scaring her mom like that.

5:51 AM  
Blogger Cat, Galloping said...

oh thank god! whew, a little word like "relief" doesn't begin to cover it.

i remember my cholestasis scare at 36 weeks. sigh. i didn't relax till i was hooked up to the monitors right before the delivery. then i figured okay, if something happens, they'll have him out in two minutes.

hand in there... almost there.

5:56 AM  
Blogger Mrs. T said...

Yay! That news is spectacular! So glad she is perfect!

5:58 AM  
Anonymous amanda said...

Oh, I'm so glad that everything's ok. What a tremendous relief.

6:47 AM  
Blogger Katie (WannaBeMom) said...

I've been thinking about this, and I'm so relieved everything is okay!

6:48 AM  
Anonymous mm said...

My stomach fell to my toes when I read your second to last post. I can't even imagine how YOU must have felt. Thank God everything is ok. Guess your baby decided she'd get an early start on driving her mother crazy!

6:53 AM  
Anonymous Tine said...

What wonderful news!

I was suitably freaked out by your last post, but I must say: I was having a hard time believing she'd actually shrunk by 2 weeks or that you'd somehow lost a ton of amniotic fluid. I mean...the former just doesn't seem possible, and a gal would surely notice the latter!

Sneaky, mischievous little bugger. Bet you can't wait to meet her. :)

7:31 AM  
Anonymous Molly said...

Oh, thank God. She gave all of her blog aunties a huge scare.

Phew.

7:51 AM  
Blogger electriclady said...

Yay! So glad to hear it.

7:58 AM  
Blogger Millie said...

So very relieved to know all is ok.

8:26 AM  
Anonymous Adrienne said...

I'm so thankful and relieved that all is well.

Adrienne

8:29 AM  
Anonymous Z said...

congratulations! i know how deep an exhale can be when you hear good news during a pregnancy. glad to hear all is well.

8:29 AM  
Blogger Kellie said...

Great news. Thank goodness everything is ok!

8:43 AM  
Blogger amyesq said...

Thank God. You had us all scared there little girl!

9:07 AM  
Blogger Ornery said...

Already a prankster, and she's not even out of the womb yet!

So glad and relieved that all is well.

9:50 AM  
Blogger Karen said...

Thank goodness! I'm so relieved to hear everything is OK.

10:05 AM  
Blogger Mellie said...

Can't blame you for crying with relief, nor do I think relief being equated with joy is odd. Things are looking great! I was 6lbs. 6 oz. when I was born, and I think I turned out pretty darn well.

10:16 AM  
Anonymous Wavery said...

Just getting to the computer to check on you, a day later of course, and what a rocky day.

I'm so so so glad everything is okay.

What is a biophysical profile and what can they do to not scare you to pieces until she comes?

10:42 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Phew....so glad that things are back on track again. Give the little one a gentle telling off about scaring mummy like that. Big hugs Bugs, the finish line is in sight!!! Maz xxx

11:10 AM  
Anonymous amber said...

So glad everything's fine. What a huge relief. I relief-cried when I got the second line (Nov 05) and when I got good amnio results back (March 06)....and this week at In-N-Out because they got my order wrong but fixed it really fast and were super nice about it. Love those hormones.

12:38 PM  
Anonymous Jen said...

Thank heavens! Glad to hear she's doing well!

1:53 PM  
Blogger tracey said...

So glad to hear the good news ! What a relief.

Tracey

2:26 PM  
Anonymous Julia S. said...

YAY!!!

4:13 PM  
Anonymous Ollie said...

Oh WHEW!!!!!! I had to work late today, so I rushed to the computer before changing my clothes to see how she is. I am SO relieved that she is fine. Apparently, destined to be a yoga instructor, but fine. :)

4:37 PM  
Blogger Zarqa said...

Relief IS joy. Glad to hear that you can breathe now that things are fine.

5:35 PM  
Blogger Suz said...

I'm so glad that all is okay with the little one.

6:00 PM  
Blogger JJ said...

"Thank goodness" seems redundant at this point. But, thank goodness.

6:06 PM  
Anonymous thalia said...

Phew. I'm so pleased, bugs, I thought that everything was probably ok, but I can only imagine how awful it felt to have this potential horror happening to you. Phew again.

5:38 AM  
Blogger Brooke said...

Good to know. How well I remember the freaking out and the irritation that they would use a number which is often wrong to freak us out.

So, uh, worry bad, reassurance good.

9:41 AM  
Blogger erinberry said...

great news!

10:08 AM  
Blogger Dream Mommy said...

Wow! She's getting big! Glad everything turned out ok.

10:43 AM  
Anonymous Patricia said...

I'm so relieved for you! I really believe this was the case, that is somehow just a weird reading, but didn't want to say it because it felt stupid of dismissive!

Anyways, good luck in the near future.

3:52 PM  
Blogger persephone said...

Bugs, sending you a fierce hug, and hoping this is the very last scare.

At least until she falls off her bike. That gives you seven years or so to recover, right?

OK, no jokes. But I reiterate the hug.

10:32 PM  
Blogger Shannon said...

YAY!! Such happy news. I'm relieved for you that everything is going well. :-) 6.5lbs of baby is a lot of baby! Looks like she'll be a big healthy girl. Oh goodie!

5:07 AM  
Blogger Beagle said...

Wonderful news!!

3:34 PM  
Blogger tonya said...

Whew! What a relief. I bet you are counting the days now. :)

8:41 PM  

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